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Reconnecting Strangers On A Train, One Tumblr Post At A Time

Dutch Railways began "Heartbeats," a program to connect strangers who had met on trains, in the 1990s. It started with messages printed out on free train magazines before the railway moved Heartbeats online in 2008.
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Dutch Railways began "Heartbeats," a program to connect strangers who had met on trains, in the 1990s. It started with messages printed out on free train magazines before the railway moved Heartbeats online in 2008.

There are times when we can connect — surprisingly deeply — with a stranger, and then never see them again. A missed connection. NPR's Weekend Edition has been trying to help some of you connect with people you've been trying to find.

And it turns out we're not the only one trying to bring people back together. Since the 1990s, Dutch Railways has been helping passengers reconnect with strangers they've met while traveling on those trains.

The program is called Hartkloppingen, or "Heartbeats," and it features messages like this one on a Tumblr page run by the railway:

Gerjan Vasse, who works for the department of communications at Dutch Railways, says they've seen research that 1 out of 3 of their travelers flirt frequently. That got them thinking.

"So, why won't we just facilitate this?" he says.

It started with messages printed out on free train magazines — and they became extremely popular. In 2008, Dutch Railways moved Heartbeats online, and it features missed connection posts from over 2,000 miles of railway, such as this one:

Dutch Railways began the program with messages printed out on free train magazines — and they became extremely popular. In 2008, Dutch Railways moved Heartbeats online.
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Dutch Railways began the program with messages printed out on free train magazines — and they became extremely popular. In 2008, Dutch Railways moved Heartbeats online.

Peanut sauce, hmm.

Vasse says the message board is the extent to which they'll play cupid.

"We're not a dating site," he says. "The connecting part, people really got to do themselves."

With or without their help, Vasse says about 4,000 relationships a year start on the Dutch Railway. Last year they hosted three marriage ceremonies — with the hope for more in 2018.

NPR's Isabel Dobrin produced this story for the Web.

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Lulu Garcia-Navarro is the host of Weekend Edition Sunday and one of the hosts of NPR's morning news podcast Up First. She is infamous in the IT department of NPR for losing laptops to bullets, hurricanes, and bomb blasts.

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